Back Again…

Posted in Uncategorized on April 16, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace

dsc04330_edited-1We have not posted recently, primarily because of the busyness of life.  In our last post, Jody began a new job with the Michigan Credit Union League.  She loves her place of employment, putting to use her skills and learning new aspects of her job.  Working 9 to 5 works well for us.  However, this has added to the crazyness of life.  Between work, church, school, athletic events, working out, etc., there is not a lot of downtime.  Last week we returned from an 11 day vacation – a getaway we had been planning and looking forward too for the last few months.   Joe and the kids left early, driving to Florida while Jody followed by flying down three days later.  We spent 7 great days together in Sabastian, FL soaking in the sun, enjoying the beach, and sitting around the pool.  It took us two days to drive home, stopping in Atlanta, Georgia to visit with our nephew.  We cut our vacation a couple of days short to be home for Resurrection Sunday.  For the belivers, this IS the greatest day of the year!  Now, we push to finish the school year strong and enjoy time together this summer. 

This spring, Seph is running track on the varsity team.  There is no doubt he is dedicated to this endeavor.  Each morning, he gets up before the sun rises and goes for a six mile run.  He then comes home and gets ready for a full day of school and track practice.  This year, he is the anchor in the 3200 meter run [2 miles].  At the Michigan State University invitational, he finished 6th out of 40 runners with a time of 10:38.  He has the potential to break the freshman record by the end of the year.  Jillian will also be running track.  Her first track meet is next week, running in the 800m relay.  Other than this, she continues to carry straight “A’s” and looks to finish the year strong. 

There is no doubt, we are anticipating summer.  The sun, warmer temperatures, being outside and the pool – something we look at 8 months of the year being unused.  Florida was a taste of what is to come.  Certainly, we are ready for it to arrive.

Chaotically Busy

Posted in Family on March 20, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace
Two amazing little girls!

Two amazing little girls!

It has been a while since we have posted.  Chaotic busyness would be a good way to describe our lives as of late.  We have been making the necessary adjustments to Jody working full time along with school, church, track, volleyball, lacrosse, ministry, family, friends, etc.  The little girls are doing well with all of the changes in their lives as of late.  Our six month post placement was last week with our social working visiting with us for a couple of hours.  She was amazed at both Caleigh and Chloe, and the progress both have made.  She will visit with us in another six months to write a final report.  In the midst of the chaotic busyness, last week was one of those weeks, if it could go wrong, it did go wrong.  All within seven days, our roof began to leak; Joe broke his tooth two hours before he was supposed to do a wedding; after going back and forth with GM, the side of Joe’s car that was peeling paint like an orange was finally repaired; like clock work, our furnace went out again; and Joe spent five hours at the ophthalmologist with Chloe [Yup...5 hours!].   Five years ago, we probably would have “lost it” if you know what I mean.  Today…well…those things happen.  We would just prefer the next time it happens, it wouldn’t happen all at the same week.  Needless to say, with life being so busy, we don’t sit around wondering what to do.  We are always on the go and somehow, find ways to meet our goals and get everything done we need to in the course of a week.

Back to “full-time”

Posted in Family on February 28, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace

dsc03559_edited-1We have known very few people who have not been affected by the downturn in the economy including our family.  In the last two years, we have seen all of Jody’s accounts close their doors, whereby we have watched our income become less and less.  In addition, we have poured everything we had into bringing home Chloe and Caleigh.   As we were looking to the future, we were carefully planning the months ahead with the potential of Jody looking for a full-time job this August.  The Lord did not wait until August to bring an opportunity her way.  Pursuing many part-time position, this opportunity was a full time position.  After sending her resume, as well as two interviews with the Michigan Credit Union League in a matter of three days, Jody was offered a position as their Compliance Consultant.  Her primary task is to make sure all 300 credit unions in Michigan are abiding by the laws of the land.  Although this opportunity came about 6 months early, we could not let it slip away.  In the fall, both of the girls will go to school.  In the meantime, we’ve made arrangements until that point in time.  We are grateful for the Lord’s provision in our lives.  This week was Jody’s first full week at her new place of employment.  She enjoyed her new surroundings, getting organized, as well as getting to know her new co-workers.  Our lives have gone from being busy to becoming extremely busy.  Yet, we are excited about the path laid out for us and the Lord’s continued faithfulness in our lives.

Making Room for Jake

Posted in Family on February 23, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace

dsc03554I should carry my camera around more often.  This weekend, the two older kids went to Winter Retreat.  Jake normally occupies Jillian’s bed on a regular basis whether she is in it or not.  However, he likes to “sleep” with someone.  A bit scared, I couldn’t tell you.  Since he is not allowed in our room, he has to find his next viable option.  Saturday, as the little girls were taking a nap, it was quiet in the house.   Where was Jake?  As I peaked into the girls room, there he was squishing Caleigh, hogging much of her bed, pushing her to the very corner.  I couldn’t help but laugh.  It has taken a couple of months for Jake to get used to the girls.  This has seemingly been the final result - a bond that will last forever.

Our Weekend Away

Posted in Family on February 16, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace
Kalahari Resort in Sandusky, OH

Kalahari Resort in Sandusky, OH

This was the first weekend since coming home from China on October 1, 2008 that we went away together as a family.  This year, we decided rather than have a “normal” Christmas with gifts, we would take a couple of trips, our first one being to Ohio [Yippee! I know!] and the second to Florida for Spring break.  This second trip will actually be our first full, week-long family vacation since April of 2007 and we are indeed looking forward to it.  But this weekend, we took three days and headed to Sandusky, Ohio to the Kalahari Resort which has the largest indoor water park in the United States.  It was about a year and a half ago, I found this establishment on the internet, however, last year about this time, they were finishing up an expansion project.  And, with traveling to China again in 2009, we were saving every penny.  So, with Christmas in hand, we headed to Ohio and had a great weekend at the resort.  I must admit, for an indoor water park, it was second to none.  The slides were great, the wave pool was fun, and the little girls had a blast in the kids area.  Our room was a mini-suite and we utilized every square inch of it.  If you are ever looking for something to do to get away in the middle of winter and you are in driving distance, this would be a great place to go.  Of course, we still instituted our frugal ways by bringing our own food for breakfast, lunch and snacks.  For two nights we ate out, once at Applebee’s and the second night at Fazoli’s.  It was supposed to be the Olive Garden, however, when we pulled up and there was an hour wait even at 5:00 p.m. [Valentines Day...duh!], we headed across the street.  We are glad we did.  I know the Olive Garden has good food, but so does Fazoli’s at a much more reasonable price.  Each day and each night we put our water park passes to good use closing down the slides at 10:00 p.m.  With our lives being extremely busy with ministry and kids, it was a great weekend away.  Now we have our eyes set on Spring Break and a whole lot of fun in the Florida sun!

He’s “a growing up fast!”

Posted in Family on February 13, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace
Seph and Abbie on Sadie Hawkins

Seph and Abbie on Sadie Hawkins

O.K., so we have a freshman in high school who lives in our house.  What’s the big deal?  Well really, there is no big deal, sort of.  Except, everyday is like a new adventure with Seph and family.  Why?  Because we’ve never been here before.  Desiring independence; greater responsibility; passionate pursuits; conscientious and God honoring decisions; personal day’s for rest and rejuvination…all new experiences at this age in life.  Oh, we’ve been here when we were his age.  Honestly, I don’t think things have changed that much…really!  However, a different culture with different distractions and a few different challenges.  Yet, we have seen our little boy mature into a fine young man who is very responsible and respectful, young in wisom, but maturing handsomly in his young life.

Eighteen Point Five and Counting

Posted in Family on February 7, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace
40 years old, 18.5 years of marriage, 2 teenagers, 2 pre-schoolers, and still going strong!
40 years old, 18.5 years of marriage, 2 teenagers, 2 pre-schoolers, and still going strong!

So we get up this morning and here comes Caleigh, climbing up into our bed, wanting to make a “tent” out of the blankets.  We’ve been married for eighteen point five years as I was reminded by Jody today.  As Caleigh is climbing over and under the covers, my comment to Jody was simply, “Haven’t we already been here?”  It’s been ten years since we’ve had someone come and interrupt our peaceful sleeping patterns.  We are re-living what we lived ten years ago.  AND we wouldn’t change our life for anything.  This is exactly what we asked God for a little more than three years ago.  If you have never read John Piper’s book, ”Don’t Waste Your Life” you need to take the opportunity to read it.  Dr. Piper uses a well known phrase that we often use around our home – “Lord, look at my seashells.”  This is a reference to the day you stand before the Lord to give a final account of your life on earth and your response to Almighty God is, “Lord, look at my seashells.”  In other words, rather than make a lasting investment in someones life, you are walking along the beach, collecting sea shells, wasting your life away.  It is amazing how such a simple statement can have a profound and lasting impact in someone’s life including ours.  Yes, we have already lived the pre-school years with Seph and Jillian.  Yet, today we relive those same years watching two precious girls experience all the joy life has to offer.

Synchronized “Jumping”

Posted in Family on February 3, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace

dsc03334_edited-11We’ve had another major breakthrough with Chloe and that is the pool.  We went swimming in China at least every other day.  Chloe was very clingy, perhaps because she had never been swimming before.  Some days she sat on the side of the pool and other days she never even touched the water.  When we came home, we began to work with her.  In the summer time, because of the busyness of ministry, we often don’t have the opportunity to travel.  So we enjoy much of those months in our back yard and our pool.  During the winter, while our pool is covered with snow, we go to Court One, an athletic club about a mile from our home.  In a matter of about a month, Chloe has gone from not liking the water to loving the water.  Caleigh has taught her to jump in by herself, and sometimes, holding hands with her ”best friend” as Caleigh calls her.  They may not jump or land in a sychronized fashion, but it is priceless to see the fun they have together.  [p.s. - Sorry about the cloudy picture.  This was the best shot I could get.  The lense kept fogging up due to the humidity and because of the poor lighting, the camera wouldn't "rapid shoot."  Wait until summer to get the good pictures outside.]

Chloe Faith

Posted in Family on January 24, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace

dsc03322Yesterday was four months to the day since we received Chloe.  What a transition she has made.  In such a short period of time, she has learned a new language, learned to sleep in a new soft bed, learned to eat “foreign” foods, learned to love new people and even a dog, and learned to know what it’s like to be a part of a family.  Along the way, we have learned some things.  We’ve learned what it’s like to have four kids in a family; learned to listen more intently; learned to be more patient, learned to live on less; and learned to appreciate more. 

For Caleigh [and Chloe too] she has a new best friend.  They spend every day together, most days playing with one another.  Caleigh, no doubt, is the “spark plug” of our family, always on the go, always smiling and happy.  Chloe is a bit different.  She is more quiet although her personality is beginning to shine.  She shows us something new everyday, either something she has learned or something that she already knew.  Both Caleigh and Chloe have made a phenomenal transition over these last few months.   We continue to stand amazed at God’s grace in their life and ours.

Jillian and Her Friends

Posted in Family on January 17, 2009 by GrippedByHisGrace
Jillian celebrating her 13th birthday with 17 of her friends.

Jillian celebrating her 13th birthday with 17 of her friends.

Ok, so we survived.  Or should I say, Jody survived.  Jillian had 17 friends over last evening for a girls only birthday gathering.  They arrived at 7:00 p.m., the music was loud, the girls were loud, I didn’t dare go downstairs, only Jody was allowed.  No dads permitted.  At 8:00 p.m., all the girls came upstairs to enjoy cake and ice cream, and for Jillian to open a few gifts.  Bath and Body Works seemed to be the place to shop.  At 8:45 p.m., the girls went back down stairs in the ”kids cave” before heading home between 10:30 p.m. and 11:00 p.m.  Jillian truly enjoyed celebrating her birthday and hanging out with all of her friends on this evening.  

P.S. – I had been trying to get to the gym all week.  Last night, with all the girls in the house, I took the opportunity to get a good work out.  I enjoyed my night for sure.

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